What I had expected was dinner with Adrian. What I got was a text at four forty-five saying: “Ethan mentioned the dinner to Noah apparently. Noah asked if he could come. I said yes before I thought about it. Is that okay?” And then, forty seconds later, before I could respond: “Ethan also says he knows a good restaurant and he’d like to make the reservation himself. I gave him my account details. I may have done something catastrophic.” I stared at my phone for a moment. Then I texted back: “How catastrophic?” Adrian: “He’s been on the phone for eleven minutes. Noah is helping. I’m slightly frightened.” I called Ethan directly. “Mom,” he said, with the brisk authority of someone in the middle of important work. “I’m handling it.” “What are you handling?” “The reservation. Noah

