Jay's jiu jitsu partner Nicole is all he can think about. Enjoy.. ****** Growing up, I was never much of an athlete. I was always undersized, uncoordinated, and lacking that killer instinct you need to win. My timidness just always got in the way. I loved sports though, couldn't get enough of them. I watched everything; baseball, basketball, football, hockey, you name it. I knew all the strategies, but competing was a different story. While I enjoyed being known as the stats guy, the one my friends would go to for every fact about every player, there was always a part of me that wished I could be out there instead of on the sidelines. In my late teens I discovered a new sport. It was just starting to gain popularity, but was not yet mainstream. It was called mixed martial arts. It felt

