"Why are you telling me now? Why didn't you tell me before?" A long silence. "Let me ask you a personal question, Judy. Don't answer if you don't want to. Have you ever been ravaged or f****d rough?"
"Uh...yes."
"And did you like it?"
"Like it? No. I loved it."
"Why?"
She took a deep breath and looked directly in my eyes. "Speaking for myself... and only for myself... when I have s*x, I try to make it as enjoyable for my partner as he is trying to make it enjoyable for me. That means I tend to follow certain conventions in touching, feeling and f*****g. But on those occasions when the partner, or environment, or events, or even alcohol provide sufficient additional stimuli the s*x can be totally out of this world. A slap on the ass, a tug on the hair or anything else out of the realm
