Kat As I browse the shop windows at the mall, looking for the prettiest things for my baby's room, I can't stop smiling. I know we said we wouldn't ask the gender so it would be a surprise, but I know my husband is anxious. Many nights, while he sleeps, he mentions a female name. The first few times, it bothered me a lot because my mind played tricks on me. I thought he was dreaming about some of the women from his past, and that filled me with jealousy. But my immaturity kept me from complaining. I would just sit on the bed and shed tears. But it all ended in the most unexpected way: *** Flashback One day, I mentioned it to my sister-in-law, who's a force to be reckoned with, and she got furious. She threatened to talk to him if I didn't. She emphasized that my health and that of my

