It is one thing to pick your own battles with your mate and allow there to be peace in your home. It is completely different to allow them to malign and accuse you of doing terrible things. Especially when you know that you didn’t do it. What could he have been thinking? Just because she deferred to him on most things, didn’t mean she was going to allow him to slander her, and that is what it was. I can feel the anger rise up in me, as I experienced something similar with Brandon. I remember the way he looked at me in disgust. How his friends took his side and kept my friends from supporting or helping me. I remember that pain like it was yesterday. Although I have forgiven him, and the other parties involved it still stays with me. It was one of the worst days of my life and a horrible me
