Mom came out of her room at 4 pm. She smiled, but her eyes were reddish. I offered to make her coffee or tea, but she declined, saying she'd drink later when Agnes showed up. I was dying to know what she chose, but hesitated to ask. She sat quietly by me for several minutes and then asked, "Jerry, what do YOU think I should do?" "Mom, I cannot think for you, but knowing you still wish to see both of us around, there are only 2 options. Either you tell Agnes and me to stop seeing each other, or... as you mentioned to me before, you wished she'd have somebody to care for her needs too, so leave it as is..." "Are you recommending that you sleep with both of us?!..." "I am not recommending. I am just stating, that this might be the best option, based on what YOU talked to me before finding

