"I think so. So it's not just about using dirty words."
I shook my head.
"Not really. I mean that is nice, and that's part of it, but I think it's more about really diving into the situation. Really being there. It's kinda like a vocal stimulation, or a mental one, or something."
She tilted her head in silent contemplation. And for a moment, a question hit me that I had never thought to ask.
"What about for you?"
"Huh?" She looked back at me.
"Do you like it when a guy talks dirty?" I asked.
She just looked at me quizzically.
"Sorry, I just never asked a girl that and it was something I have wondered from time to time."
She smiled.
"It's fine. And I do. I guess for the same reasons. I guess the same thing goes; I never really thought about it..."
We drove in silence for a little
