I told her about my s****l preferences and likes, which included everything she had mentioned. I had not tried raceplay, but I admitted that I could see the appeal as long as both parties were into it. I admitted that I was lucky with my girlfriend who tried and loved to be cuffed to the bed or other object, spanked, paddled, and flogged. But she unfortunately wasn't one to share her fantasies and would only agree to things if I brought them up. The s*x was great and we enjoyed ourselves, but she didn't want to go to the club or try anything else. She also still would not talk about anything new that she was interested in trying, even if I asked upfront. We still got along but got the feeling that she was going through the motions. After a while, I saw the writing on the wall and I wasn't
