"Well, they come in different varieties," Sandy said. "Some couples simply have different tastes in s*x and accept that so they allow each other to have partners that will satisfy those tastes or fetishes. Maybe the husband really likes anal s*x but his wife doesn't. Maybe the wife likes being a leather-wearing, whip-wielding dom and her husband just can't get into that. Sometimes it's a don't-ask-don't-tell thing where each goes out for the night, satisfies their craving, and then comes home and has an otherwise normal, loving relationship which usually includes non-kinky love-making s*x.
"Another variant," Sandy went on, "and the one that I would think would fit your situation, is to invite other partners--singles, couples, or more--to join you and Jay. It wouldn't need to be an all-the
